Meaning

An expression that you say to someone whose action or words seem a little much. Usually said after a rude or unwelcomed comment.

Today's Sentences

01

Don’t be so rude.

Situation 1

You’re not wearing THAT to dinner, are you?

Don’t be so rude.

Just want you to look nicer,
that’s all.

How about next time you have something to say,
be a little nicer.

Situation 2

It’s nice to see you.
You look like you gained weight.

That’s extremely insulting.
Don’t be so rude.

Just wanted to point out what I saw.

If you can’t say anything nice,
don’t say anything at all.

02

Don’t be so selfish.

Situation 1

I want my kids to be doctors and lawyers.

Don’t be so selfish.
Your children are not your children.

That’s crazy.
You make your children’s success.

I don’t believe that at all.

Situation 2

I need to get my hair and nails done and then I’m having drinks tonight.

Don’t be so selfish.
We take care of the kids together.

I’m not being selfish.
I’m just making the most of one day.

I think going for drinks is a little much.

03

Don’t be so worried.

Situation 1

I hope the surgery goes well.

Don’t be so worried.

How could I not worry.

Worrying won’t make the situation any better.

Situation 2

Do you think our company will survive the next crisis?

Don’t be so worried.

I guess we could make a survival strategy based on our data.

Let's keep up the proactive attitude.

04

Don’t be so shy.

Situation 1

I’d like to introduce the newest member of the group.

Hi, everyone.

Don’t be so shy.
Introduce yourself!

I’m Amanda and I’m happy to be here.

Situation 2

Did you want to eat another slice of pizza?

Yes, please.

Don’t be so shy, just ask next time.

Ok.

05

Don’t be so hard on yourself.

Situation 1

Great game!

Great game?
But we lost!

Don’t be so hard on yourself.
You win some, you lose some.

I guess.

Situation 2

I wish I wouldn’t have said those words.

Don’t be so hard on yourself.

I try not to say things I regret.

Don’t we all?
But be the bigger man and say sorry.

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